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KEEP IT KIND McNally says she's been shocked by complaints from many frustrated, disappointed bridesmaids over the years, women who were unimpressed with how cavalier and demanding their bride had been. "Remember that bridesmaids and groomsmen are not a right, but a privilege," she cautions. "Don't take them for granted. People are busy and, for some, money can be tight. A bride should always be wary of how much she is asking of her wedding posse and be respectful and accommodating of schedules." It's also smart to be aware of the strengths and weaknesses of your bridesmaids and groomsmen during the wedding-planning process, says Keats. "If your wedding party is made up of busy professionals, consider dividing up the planning of the shower and the bachelorette party among the bridesmaids instead of delegating it to the maid of honour alone." Finally, remember that those who stand beside you on your wedding day are doing so because they love and care about you. Show them you appreciate that, and keep it front of mind. Says Keats: "I like to think that the group of people standing beside my couples on their wedding day are the people that have supported them throughout their lives, have supported their relationship and will continue to support them in their married life for many years to come." rw RF Productions.indd 1 13-03-12 3:46 PM realweddings.ca p20,21_RealAdvice Supporting Cast.indd 21 21 13-09-23 10:54 AM